I was not asked to write this and it occurs
to me that writing a blog about my own experiences might be considered
egotistical (a thought that, I’m sure, is impressively un-earth shattering to
those who know me). Regardless, I am going to write and post anyway because
it’s always been more about processing than broadcasting. Anyway, enjoy.
June
12th, 2013: Typical.
How to explain the sort of non-alcohol
induced buzz that the thought of Open Arms sends through my limbs? Not to play
into gender stereotypes or anything, but I’m not sure I fully understand how
I’m feeling about the whole thing just at the moment. I, quite literally,
frolicked around the house with joy when presented with the opportunity to go
back. (Just ask Nick and Maria.) But while I am beyond excited, I am also
picking up on an emotion that feels an awful lot like fear.
When I came back from South Africa just
over two years ago, I was sure I was ready to face ACE with the passion and
grace that my biggest fans (you know who you are) expected of me. I thought
that my time in South Africa would prepare me for everything. Foolishly, I
thought I was above the “adjustment period” I had been warned about.
I was not.
I was, and am, not above anything or
anyone. I was ill-prepared for just about everything and I found I had left
something of the passionate and graceful me thousands of miles away. I came
back scared, anxious, and upset that I couldn’t live up to the newly cultured
and compassionate Keaton I had intended on becoming during my time away.
First summer of ACE was misery despite the
nearly ideal company (I’m looking at you ACE 17 and 18). But it wasn’t the heat
or the cramped quarters of Zahm Hall or the early rising for practicum or even
the pink eye that caused my tail-spin; it was the fact that suddenly it was
very unclear who I had been, who I’d become, and who I was going to be moving
forward.
It’s taken me the better part of two years
to feel the sort of peace in the person that I am once again. In February, when
I became the final member of DallACE 18 to commit to staying in Dallas for
another year, I was overcome with a sense of certainty and peace I’d only known
two other times. In March, I became more obnoxious than I had been in a while,
declaring that if any more good came to me, I’d explode.
Don’t get me wrong, I am no master teacher,
but looking back over these two years, I feel as though I’ve made something of
a difference. I have loved coming home tired after tutoring and soccer practice
and lunch duty; I have grown more patient with, and appreciative of, even my
most challenging students; I have loved living in community and meeting up with
coworkers outside of school and exploring Dallas a bit. And while I still hate
grading, I feel as though my life has direction. Passion and grace (OK, maybe
not grace) have crept back into the picture and, truth be told, I’m a little
scared to shake things up once again.
But something that Greg said to me one
afternoon on the way back from school resonates with me: for someone who claims
not to like change, you sure do invite big changes into your life.
Thinking on that, I recall the original interest form I completed to work at Open
Arms. In it, I write about how drawn I am to discomfort and how important I feel it
plays in our growth. We need that discomfort to shuffle
priorities and fuel the discernment process. So while it’s a scary thing to
knowingly open yourself to alterations, I know that it’s a necessity to the
person I am.
June 16th, I’ll get on that
plane and prepare to let the kids lead. And August 8th, I’ll land in
Dallas, hopefully a little better for having relinquished control.
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